Unfaithful To Our Husbands?

In Conversation Peace, our ladies Bible Study, we've been discussing the various types of speech that build bridges and connect us to friends, family, co-workers, and more. In contrast, we've talked about the things we often say that tear our relationships apart and destroy the peace.

One thing really stood out to me in our last study. The author suggested that when we say negative things about our husbands, we're "unfaithful" to them. Hopefully we would never be physically unfaithful to the person we've made ever-lasting vows with. However, how many times do we complain about what he doesn't do or how he handles a situation? Have we ever jumped into a discussion with other women and made sarcastic remarks about our hubby and his habits or things that frustrate us? If so, we've been unfaithful to him in our speech. The Bible teaches us to encourage and lift one-another up. Yes, that includes our husband.

I want to encourage you not to get into a habit of complaining or gossiping about the man God has called you to support. Instead, replace that bad habit with a good one of encouragement, building him up, and being supportive (even if he doesn't do that for you). Look for the positive and find any chance you can to pass on those comments instead, both to him, and to others. You'll be amazed at how God changes both HIM and your relationship!